Please someone help herpes problem!!?

Please someone help, my boyfriend had cold sores and went down on me, and then we both got herpes at pretty much the EXACT same time...cant even figuire out who had it first. Is it possible that i transferred it back to him? or is this not possible as his body would have produced antibodies for that virus and it is simply that one of us has got the HSV-2 and transferred it that way, maybe he cheated? please someone help!!!!!